Okay, so I’ve been diving deep into astrology lately, and I stumbled upon this aspect called a “Sun sesquiquadrate Moon” in synastry (which is basically comparing two people’s charts). It sounded kinda intense, so I decided to check it out in my own relationship history. Boy, was that a ride!
First, I pulled up my chart and my ex’s chart. I use this old, clunky astrology software my aunt gave me. It takes forever to load, but it gets the job done.
Digging Through the Data
I inputted both our birth dates, times, and locations. I had to double-check my ex’s birth time; thankfully, I still had an old birthday message from him that mentioned it. Phew!
- My Sun: Gemini (because, duh, I’m a Gemini)
- His Moon: Scorpio (intense, I know)
Then, I fiddled with the software to show me the aspects between our charts. There it was: Sun sesquiquadrate Moon. A big, red line connecting the two. My heart kinda skipped a beat.
Making Sense of It All
Now, this is where it gets a little tricky. I’m no expert, so I started googling like crazy. I found some articles and forum posts, some of which were way too technical. I ended up sifting through all that jargon to find something I could actually understand.
Basically, from what I gathered, this aspect can create some friction. It’s like, your core self (Sun) and your emotional needs (Moon) aren’t quite on the same page. There’s this underlying tension that can be hard to pinpoint.
The “Aha!” Moment
And that’s when it hit me. Thinking back on our relationship, there was this constant push and pull. I’m all about communication and lightness (Gemini Sun), while he was much more private and emotionally intense (Scorpio Moon). We often misunderstood each other, and it led to some pretty frustrating arguments. I’m all Air and he is all Water sign!
I remember this one time, I was trying to talk through a problem we were having, and he just completely shut down. It was like talking to a brick wall! Now, seeing this aspect in our charts, it kinda makes sense. It wasn’t necessarily anyone’s fault, it was just this underlying astrological tension playing out.
My Takeaway
It’s kind of a relief, actually. It’s not that we were doomed from the start, but we definitely had this challenging aspect to navigate. So, yeah, Sun sesquiquadrate Moon in synastry? It’s real, and it can be a real pain. But at least now I have a better understanding of what happened, thanks to my little astrology deep dive!
