Okay, so I’ve been digging into this whole “Venus in Pisces male” thing, and let me tell you, it’s been a journey. I started by, you know, just Googling it. Just to see what the general vibe was. I saw a lot of stuff about dreamy, sensitive guys, artistic types, maybe a little lost in the clouds.
Then I thought, “Okay, I need some real-world examples.” So I started observing. I mean, really observing. I thought about guys I know, guys I’ve dated, even characters in movies and books who seemed to fit the description. I made a list. It was kind of messy at first, just random names and notes scribbled on whatever paper I could find. I was really just throwing things at the wall at this stage.
My Observation Phase
- First Observation: The Musician. I have this friend, Mark, who plays guitar in a local band. Super talented, super sweet, but always seems a little…detached. Like he’s living half in this world and half in some beautiful, melodic universe. Classic Venus in Pisces, I thought.
- Second Observation: The Artist. Another friend is an incredible painter, but getting him to commit to, like, anything is a challenge. He will talk all day for new plans and painting, very dreamy.
- Third Observation:The Dreamer. Always in his own world.
After gathering these messy observations, I started organizing my notes. I created a little spreadsheet, because, well, I’m a little bit of a nerd. I put down names, key characteristics, and any patterns I noticed. I started to see some common threads.
I realized these guys were often incredibly empathetic. Like, they could feel other people’s emotions intensely. That seemed like a big piece of the puzzle. They were also drawn to creative pursuits, whether it was music, art, writing, or something else entirely. And a lot of them had this…vague quality. Like they weren’t quite grounded in reality. Sometimes this was charming, sometimes it was frustrating.
The next step was refining my understanding. I didn’t want to just rely on stereotypes. I wanted to go deeper. I started to really try to understand the why behind these traits. I realized that the empathy probably came from this deep sensitivity. And maybe the “lost in the clouds” thing was actually a way of escaping from the harshness of the real world. A coping mechanism, maybe?
So, yeah, that’s where I’m at now. Still learning, still observing. It’s a process, you know? But I feel like I’m starting to get a better handle on this whole “Venus in Pisces male” thing. It’s not just about being dreamy, it’s about a whole way of experiencing the world. It’s fascinating, really.
