Okay, so let’s talk about this whole Saturn in the 7th house thing. I’ve been digging into it lately, and man, it’s been a ride.
It all started when I noticed a pattern in my relationships. I’ve always been the one to take things super seriously. Like, from the get-go, I’m thinking long-term. Commitment? Stability? That’s my jam. I realized I needed to figure out why I was so intense about this stuff. I am not sure what I can do so I started to search on internet.
I did some research, started messing around with astrology, and bam, there it was: Saturn chilling in my 7th house. And that’s when it hit me. I read somewhere that Saturn is like this cosmic rule-maker, all about discipline and structure. And the 7th house? That’s the zone for partnerships and commitments.
So, I got down to business. I started observing my interactions, my reactions, everything. I paid attention to how I approached relationships. It was like, “Okay, why do I always feel the need to lock things down? Why am I so scared of things falling apart?” I needed to understand the core reason. I needed to understand who I am.
I started to write down my thoughts, my feelings, those “aha” moments when I’d catch myself being all Saturn-like. Like that time I freaked out because my partner was being a bit too spontaneous for my liking. Classic Saturn move, right? I was trying to control everything.
- First I will keep observing my interactions.
- Then, I will try to understand my feeling.
- Finally, I am going to find my way to deal with it.
Then came the tough part: figuring out how to work with this energy, not against it. I started experimenting with letting go a little. Tried to be more flexible, you know? It wasn’t easy. I mean, Saturn doesn’t exactly do “easy.” But I kept at it. I practiced being more open to different relationship styles, different ways of showing love and commitment.
And slowly, things started to change. I found myself being less rigid. I could appreciate the beauty of a relationship that wasn’t all planned out. And my relationships? They started feeling more balanced. I wasn’t just this heavy, serious presence anymore. I was learning to flow, to adapt.
It’s a work in progress, for sure. Saturn’s influence is no joke. But I’m getting there. I’m learning to embrace the good stuff – the loyalty, the dedication – while also leaving room for some lightness and spontaneity.
So, yeah, that’s my Saturn in the 7th house story. It’s been about understanding myself, facing my fears, and finding a way to build relationships that are both solid and fulfilling. And let me tell you, it’s been one of the most rewarding journeys ever.
