Okay, so I’ve been diving deep into synastry charts lately, you know, comparing my chart with other people’s charts to see how we vibe astrologically. And I stumbled upon this “Sun in 4th House” thing, which got me really curious. So, I decided to roll up my sleeves and see what it’s all about, based on my own experience.
Getting Started: The Data Collection
First things first, I needed some data. I gathered the birth charts of a few close friends and family members – people I know really well, so I could actually see if the interpretations made sense. I used some free online chart calculators; easy peasy.
The “Sun in 4th” Search
My first step was using online search engines to see what information I could gather, and what key information was available.

Then, I started looking specifically at the charts where the other person’s Sun fell into my 4th house. The 4th house, from what I understand, is all about home, family, roots, your emotional foundation… that kind of stuff.
Cross-Referencing and Pattern Spotting
- Feeling “at home”: I noticed that with some of these people, I just felt this instant sense of comfort and familiarity, like I could totally be myself around them. It was like that feeling of coming home after a long trip – just relaxing and unwinding.
- Emotional connection: I also observed a deeper emotional connection with some of them. We could talk about feelings, vulnerabilities, and family stuff without feeling awkward or judged. It was almost like they got me on a deeper level.
- Family-like dynamics: Sometimes I noticed there was a family-like vibe in those interactions. It wasn’t always the exact dynamic, but one person in particular it was a nuturing mother like vibe.
The Aha! Moment(The Realization)
It wasn’t like a lightning bolt or anything, but I gradually realized that the “Sun in 4th house” thing wasn’t just some random astrology mumbo-jumbo. It actually seemed to reflect real patterns in my relationships. I was having real feelings with these people!
Documenting and Reflecting
I started jotting down my observations in a notebook. It wasn’t super scientific, but it helped me keep track of the different connections and how they played out. I wrote down things like, “With X, I feel like I can really open up about my childhood,” or “With Y, it’s like we have this unspoken understanding about family stuff.”
The Ongoing Experiment
This is definitely an ongoing thing for me. I’m still exploring these connections, and I’m sure I’ll keep learning more as I go. But so far, it’s been a pretty cool way to understand my relationships on a deeper level. It’s like having a little secret decoder ring for human connections! It is very interesting, to say the least!