Okay, here’s my blog post about my experience with a Moon square Saturn synastry aspect:
Alright, folks, gather ’round. I gotta tell you about this whole astrology thing I’ve been diving into. Specifically, this one aspect – Moon square Saturn in synastry. That’s a mouthful, right? Basically, it’s how two people’s charts line up, and let me tell you, this one’s been a doozy.
So, I started noticing this pattern in a, uh, significant relationship. Things were intense, passionate, but also… heavy. Like, carrying-a-backpack-full-of-bricks heavy. I’d feel all these emotions, all this vulnerability, and it felt like hitting a brick wall. Sound familiar to anyone?

I’m not gonna lie, I kinda brushed it off at first. “Oh, it’s just us, we’re just different,” I’d tell myself. But the pattern kept repeating. I’d be all open and emotional, and then BAM! I’d feel shut down, criticized, or just… misunderstood. It was like my feelings were being put under a microscope and judged. Ouch.
So, being the curious (and slightly obsessive) person I am, I started digging. I’d heard about synastry before, how your birth chart can interact with someone else’s. And that’s when I stumbled upon this Moon square Saturn thing.
My Deep Dive and Process Record
- First, I pulled up our charts. There are plenty of free websites where you can do this. You just need both birth dates, times, and locations. Easy peasy(If you can get the birth * people can’t get it!).
- Then, I looked for the aspects. These are the angles between the planets. You’ll see a bunch of lines and symbols. Don’t freak out! Just look for the Moon and Saturn.
- And there it was. A big, fat square. A 90-degree angle. In astrology, squares mean tension, conflict, challenges. Well, that explained a lot.
It made me feel emotional, and also blocked at the same time. It also makes me feel like I have to be careful with my sensitive side.
Now, I’m not saying this aspect is a death sentence for a relationship. Nope. But it does mean you gotta put in the work. It means understanding that there’s this dynamic at play. It means learning to communicate better, to be more patient, to give each other space, and maybe even having to go for conseling.
For me, just knowing about it was a huge first step. It helped me understand why I was feeling the way I was. And it gave me some tools to start working through it. I’m still figuring it all out, to be honest. It’s a process. But I’m feeling a lot more hopeful, and a lot less like I’m carrying that damn backpack full of bricks.
I continued to observe and feel this aspect. I learned to manage it well, and I also learned to grow a lot from it.