Okay, so I’ve been diving deep into this whole “Mars opposite Mars” thing in synastry, you know, relationship astrology. It sounds kinda intense, right? Like, two fiery planets clashing. I wanted to see if it played out like the dramatic stuff I read online, or if it was something… different.
First, I pulled up the charts of a couple I know. Let’s call them Sarah and Tom. They’ve been together for years, and they have this… passionate dynamic. Sometimes it’s amazing, sometimes it’s explosive. I was curious.
Getting the Charts
I used this free website , and popped in their birth dates, times, and locations. Boom! Charts generated. I’m no expert, so I mostly focused on the Mars placements.
- I locate where the mars is.
- And see the two mars is diometeically opposite.
Spotting the Opposition
And there it was! Sarah’s Mars is in Aries, and Tom’s Mars is in Libra. A direct opposition. Textbook. My initial thought was, “Oh boy, here we go…”
I started observing them more closely. It was almost comical at times. They’d get into these little spats about the silliest things. Like, one time, it was about how to load the dishwasher. Seriously. Sarah, with her Aries Mars, was all direct and assertive, like, “Just do it this way!” Tom, with his Libra Mars, was trying to be all diplomatic and find the “fairest” solution. It was a clash of “get it done” versus “let’s be harmonious.”
The Blow-Ups (and Make-Ups)
They definitely have their share of arguments. It’s not constant, but when it happens, it’s… noticeable. I’ve seen them go from zero to sixty pretty quickly. But here’s the interesting thing: they also make up just as fast. There’s this intense energy between them, but it doesn’t seem to linger in a negative way. It is a good way to keep passionate.
One time, they had a huge fight about a weekend trip. Sarah wanted to go hiking and be super active, while Tom wanted a relaxing, do-nothing kind of getaway. It escalated into a full-blown argument, with raised voices and everything. I thought, “This is it. This is the Mars opposition imploding.”
But then, a few hours later, they were cuddling on the couch, laughing about something. It was like the fight had never * just figure out their opnion is all from the different aspects.
My Takeaway (So Far)
So, based on my super informal, totally non-scientific observation of Sarah and Tom, here’s what I’m thinking about this Mars opposite Mars thing:
- Yes, it seems to create some tension and conflict.
- It is easy to start an argument for tiny little things.
- But, it also seems to fuel their passion and keep things interesting.
- They’re never bored, that’s for sure.
It’s like, the opposition creates this friction, but the friction generates sparks. It’s not necessarily a bad thing, as long as they can learn to navigate the intensity and not let it burn them out.
I still have to learn so much about it, and I should try more couples’ chart, it’s a very interesting topic!
