Okay, so I wanted to talk about this wild experience I had with the Tower card in a love reading. I’ve been messing around with Tarot cards for a while now, just for fun, really. I don’t take it too seriously, but sometimes the readings are kinda spot on, you know?
So, a few weeks ago, I was feeling a bit down about my love life. I’ve been single for a while, and honestly, it was starting to get to me. I decided to do a simple three-card spread, just to see what the cards had to say about my romantic future. The first two cards were pretty normal, nothing too exciting. But then, I flipped over the last card, and bam! There it was – the Tower.
Now, if you know anything about Tarot, you know the Tower is a pretty intense card. It’s got this picture of a tower being struck by lightning, people falling out of it, and everything is on fire. It’s basically a big ol’ symbol of chaos and destruction. My first thought was, “Oh great, my love life is doomed.”
I started to read up on what the Tower means in a love reading, and most of the stuff I found was pretty negative. It talked about sudden breakups, dramatic changes, and basically everything falling apart. I was starting to feel even worse than before I did the reading. But then, I stumbled upon this one blog post that had a different take on it.
It talked about how the Tower can also represent breaking down old structures that are no longer serving you. It said that sometimes, things need to fall apart so that something new and better can be built in their place. This kind of resonated with me because I realized I had some pretty unhealthy patterns in my past relationships. I tended to go for the same type of guy, and it always ended in disaster.
So, instead of freaking out about the Tower, I decided to see it as a challenge. I started to think about what I really wanted in a relationship and what I needed to change about myself to get there. I made a list of all the things that weren’t working for me in my past relationships and started to work on addressing those issues.
- Reflecting on past patterns: I spent a lot of time thinking about my past relationships and what went wrong.
- Identifying my needs: I got clearer on what I actually wanted and needed from a partner.
- Working on myself: I started to address some of my own issues that were contributing to my relationship problems.
It wasn’t easy, and it definitely wasn’t a sudden change. It was more like a gradual process of tearing down those old walls and building something new. And you know what? It felt good. I started to feel more confident and empowered. I realized that I didn’t need a relationship to be happy, but I also knew that I was capable of having a healthy and fulfilling one when the time was right.
I haven’t met my soulmate yet, but I’m not worried about it. I know that when the time is right, things will fall into place. And in the meantime, I’m enjoying my life and focusing on being the best version of myself. So, yeah, the Tower card scared me at first, but in the end, it turned out to be a really positive thing. It helped me to break down those old, unhealthy patterns and build a stronger foundation for my future relationships. And who knows, maybe that’s exactly what I needed.
