Okay, so I saw this question about Rooster men and Goat women, and I thought, “Hey, I’ve kinda lived this!” So, let’s dive into my little experiment with this pairing.
First off, I’m a Rooster – loud, proud, and love to be in charge, you know? A while back, I dated this girl, Sarah, who was totally a Goat. Super artistic, dreamy, and, yeah, a bit all over the place. Sound familiar from what the pros say? Yep, it kinda does.
The Setup
I thought, “Let’s see if this whole zodiac thing has any merit.” I started by really observing us. How we interacted, our arguments, our good times… everything.
The Nitty-Gritty
- My Rooster Side: I planned dates, organized our schedules (as much as she’d let me!), and generally tried to be the, ahem, responsible one.
- Her Goat Side: Sarah created beautiful art, introduced me to cool music, and generally reminded me to chill out (which, let’s be honest, I needed).
The Clash
So, here’s where it got tricky. My “practical” nature? It totally clashed with her “go with the flow” vibe. For example, I’d make dinner reservations, and she’d be like, “Why don’t we just wander around and see what we find?” Cute, but frustrating for a planner like me!
Another time, I tried to help her organize her art supplies. Big mistake. Huge. It ended in a mini-meltdown. She felt I was stifling her creativity, and I felt like I was walking on eggshells.
The Good Stuff (Yes, There Was Some!)
It wasn’t all bad, though. We learned a lot from each other. I became a bit more spontaneous (baby steps!), and she got a little better at, well, showing up on time. Her artistic side really opened my eyes to a different world, and I think my grounded-ness helped her feel a bit more secure.
The Verdict (My Totally Unscientific Conclusion)
Did we last? Nope. We ultimately decided to go our separate ways. It was a bumpy ride, lots of little clashes, and a few big ones. The online zodiac stuff saying “not reasonably good” is kinda spot-on, in my experience.
But hey, it was a learning experience! I definitely understand myself (and maybe Goats) a little better now. Would I do it again? Probably not. But I don’t regret it. It just confirmed that sometimes, opposites attract…and then drive each other crazy!
