Alright, let’s talk about this relationship tarot spread thing, ya know? Folks say it can tell ya stuff about your love life, like, what’s goin’ on with your man or if you gonna find someone new. I ain’t no expert, but I heard things.
So, first off, what is this spread anyway? It’s like layin’ out cards, right? Each card got a picture and a meanin’. And how you lay ’em out, that matters too. They say it can show ya what’s happenin’ now, what happened before, and maybe even what’s comin’ down the road in your relationship.
- The Now Card: This one tells ya what’s goin’ on right now in your relationship. Is it good? Is it bad? Are you fightin’ like cats and dogs or sweet as pie? The card will show ya, they say.
- The Past Card: This one looks back. Maybe there’s somethin’ in your past that’s messin’ with your love life now. Like an old flame or a bad fight you ain’t gotten over.
- The Future Card: Now, this one’s tricky. It ain’t set in stone, ya hear? It just shows ya what might happen if you keep doin’ what you’re doin’. If you don’t like what you see, you gotta change things up, right?
- The Partner Card: This card tells ya about your partner. What they’re thinkin’, what they’re feelin’. Are they bein’ honest with you? Are they happy? It’s like gettin’ a peek inside their head, I guess.
- The You Card: And don’t forget about yourself! This card shows your part in the relationship. What you’re bringing to the table, your hopes, your fears, all that stuff. Maybe you’re the one causin’ trouble, or maybe you’re the one holdin’ it all together.
Now, some folks use more cards, some use less. I seen some fancy spreads with like, ten cards! But for us regular folks, a few cards is probably enough. You don’t need to be a fancy pants fortune teller to get somethin’ out of it.
But here’s the thing, them cards ain’t magic, ya know? They ain’t gonna tell you exactly who you gonna marry or when you gonna have babies. It’s more like… guidance. Like, if you pull a card that shows a bunch of swords, that might mean there’s some fightin’ or conflict in your relationship. And if you pull a card with a bunch of cups, that might mean there’s love and happiness. But it ain’t always that simple. You gotta use your own brain too.
And listen, don’t go askin’ them cards yes or no questions. Like, “Is he gonna call me?” That ain’t how it works. You gotta ask open-ended questions, like, “What do I need to know about my relationship right now?” Or, “What can I do to make things better?” That way, the cards can give you somethin’ to think about, somethin’ to work with.
And if you’re lookin’ for love, the cards can help with that too. They say you can do a spread to see what kind of person you should be lookin’ for, or what you need to do to attract the right person. You might ask somethin’ like, “What kind of person will make me happy?”, or “How will I know I’ve met the right one?” It ain’t a guarantee, but it might give you some ideas.
Finding a good tarot reader is important, if you ain’t doin’ it yourself. You don’t want just anyone messin’ with your love life, right? You want someone who knows what they’re doin’, someone who can explain the cards in a way that makes sense to you. And someone you trust. Don’t go lettin’ just anyone read your cards, ya hear?
So, there you have it. That’s what I know about this relationship tarot spread. It ain’t no magic bullet, but it can be a helpful tool if you use it right. Just remember to keep an open mind, and don’t take everything too literal. It’s like lookin’ in a mirror, sometimes you see things you don’t like, but that don’t mean you can’t change ’em.
And one more thing, don’t get too hung up on the future. The cards might show you one path, but you can always choose a different one. You’re the one in charge of your own life, remember that. Don’t let no cards tell you what to do. Just use ’em as a guide, and trust your own gut. That’s the most important thing.
