Okay, so I’ve been messing around with this idea of “judgement, love, outcome,” trying to see how it plays out in real life. It started with a simple question: Can I predict how things will turn out based on initial judgments and the amount of “love” (effort, care, etc.) I put in?
My first experiment? My sad-looking houseplant. Honestly, my initial judgement was “It’s probably a goner.” I’m not great with plants. My history with them is… well, let’s just say it involves a lot of wilting.
But then, I thought, “Okay, let’s try the ‘love’ part.” This didn’t involve actual romantic love, obviously. It meant researching what this specific plant needed. Turns out, I was overwatering it! Classic me. I adjusted the watering schedule, moved it to a sunnier spot (another thing I learned from my research), and started talking to it. Yeah, I know, I sound crazy, but it felt like I was putting in that extra care.
- Step 1: Judgement (“It’s dying”).
- Step 2: Love (Research, adjust care, positive vibes).
- Step 3: Observe the outcome.
The Outcome?
Surprisingly, the plant started perking up. New leaves! It actually looked…healthy. My initial judgment was totally wrong, and the effort I put in (the “love”) directly impacted the positive outcome.
Then,I started applying this “judgement, love, outcome” to my work on project.
My team needed a logo,My initial judgement? “I will never finish it on time”.
I put a lot of effort into * with team members,looking for logo design,and adjusting it again and again.
- Step 1: Judgement (“I will never finish it on time”).
- Step 2: Love (Brainstorming, looking for logo design, and adjusting it again and again).
- Step 3: Observe the outcome.
The Outcome?
Eventually,a logo that everyone was satisfied with was born,
So, this whole “judgement, love, outcome” thing is more than just a silly phrase. It’s a reminder that our initial assumptions aren’t always right, and that the effort we put into something really does matter. It’s not magic, but it’s definitely a good way to approach, well, pretty much anything.
