Okay, so, let’s talk about this “Queen of Cups as a person” thing. I got into this whole tarot thing a while back, just for kicks, you know? And this one card, the Queen of Cups, really got me thinking. It’s supposed to represent this super caring, intuitive type of person. So, I did a little experiment to see if I could find someone like that in my life.
First, I spent some time really looking at the card. It’s this lady, sitting on a throne by the water, holding a fancy cup. She looks calm, you know, peaceful. I read up on what she’s all about – compassionate, emotionally deep, all that good stuff. I jotted down some notes, like “gentle,” “nurturing,” “empathetic.” I wanted to get a good picture in my head.
Then, I started paying more attention to the people around me. I observed my friends, family, even just people I saw at the coffee shop. I was looking for those Queen of Cups vibes. Did anyone give off that soothing, understanding energy? I watched how they interacted with others, how they handled tough situations. I even started conversations, trying to get a feel for their inner world.

- I noticed my friend, Sarah, always seemed to know when someone was feeling down. She’d just quietly listen, offer a hug, without needing to be asked. That felt like a Queen of Cups moment.
- My grandma, too, she’s got this way of making everyone feel loved and accepted. She’s always there with a warm meal and a listening ear. Definitely some Queen of Cups energy there.
I kept a little journal, writing down my observations. I marked down instances when I saw someone embody those qualities – the intuition, the empathy, the nurturing spirit. It was like a little treasure hunt, but for personality traits.
After a few weeks of doing this, I realized something. These Queen of Cups people, they’re not just characters in a tarot deck. They’re real, and they’re all around us. We might not see people with all of the traits of the Queen of Cups all the time, but I am sure now there must be someone with most of the traits. They’re the ones who make the world a little softer, a little kinder. And recognizing them, appreciating them, that’s pretty cool, right?
So, that’s my little experiment with the Queen of Cups. It was a fun way to learn more about the card, and even more about the people in my life. Maybe you should try it sometime. You might be surprised at what you find.