Alright, let’s talk about that dang 4 of Wands card, but turned upside down. You know, the one they call “reversed”. It ain’t good news, I tell ya. It’s like when you bake a cake and it comes out all flat and burnt. Nobody wants that, right?
What’s the fuss all about with this reversed 4 of Wands?
Well, when that card shows up all flipped, it means things ain’t stable. Like a wobbly table, you know? Families might be fightin’, friends might be backstabbin’, and you just feel like you don’t belong nowhere. You expect folks to cheer you on, but they just sit there, arms crossed and frownin’. It’s like throwing a party and nobody shows up. Disappointin’, ain’t it? This card, when it’s reversed, it’s a sign of disharmony and instability.
- Family fights
- Relationship troubles
- Feeling like you don’t fit in
- Lack of support
You were expectin’ a party, but ended up with a funeral, you see? That’s the reversed 4 of Wands for ya.
So, what do you do when this bad luck card shows up?
First thing’s first, you gotta look around and see what’s what. Like, really see. Is your house a mess? Are your kids screamin’ all the time? Is your husband stompin’ around like a bull in a china shop? You gotta figure out where the trouble is comin’ from. It’s like findin’ a leak in the roof before the whole house gets ruined.
Then, you gotta start fixin’ things. And that ain’t easy, I tell ya. It’s like tryin’ to herd cats. But you gotta do it. You gotta set some boundaries, you know? Like, tellin’ them kids to shut their traps and your husband to stop stompin’. You gotta say “no” sometimes. It ain’t always easy but you gotta stand firm like an old stubborn oak tree.
Don’t forget to be thankful for what you got. Even if it ain’t much. Like, maybe you got a roof over your head and food on the table. That’s somethin’, right? Count your blessings, they say. Even if them blessings are as small as a mustard seed, be thankful.
And look for the stable things in your life. You know, the things that don’t change. Like the sun risin’ every mornin’ or that old oak tree in your yard. Hold on to them things. They’ll keep you grounded when everything else feels like it’s fallin’ apart. And sometimes you just need to breathe, girl. Like when I’m making jam and it’s just not setting right, I just gotta stop, take a deep breath, and start over. Same thing with life.
The regular 4 of Wands, that’s a happy card. It’s all about joy and parties and folks gettin’ along. But when it’s reversed, it’s the opposite. It’s about arguments and instability and feeling lonely. It’s a sign that you need to work on your relationships and create some harmony in your life. Maybe someone’s actions toward you ain’t been right. Maybe someone’s upset the balance. You gotta find that balance again.
So, if you see that reversed 4 of Wands, don’t panic. Just take a deep breath, look around, and start fixin’ things. And don’t forget to be thankful for what you got and find those stable things to hold on to. It ain’t gonna be easy, but you can do it. You’re stronger than you think, just like that old stubborn oak tree in the wind.
In short, here’s what you gotta do:
- Figure out what’s wrong.
- Set some boundaries.
- Be thankful.
- Find the stable things.
- Work at getting that harmony back.
It’s like plantin’ a garden. You gotta dig out the weeds, water the seeds, and wait for things to grow. It takes time and effort, but in the end, you’ll have somethin’ beautiful.
And remember, even when things are tough, there’s always hope. Just like that little seed waitin’ to sprout, you got the potential for somethin’ good to happen. Just keep workin’ at it, and things will get better.
Tags: [4 of Wands, Reversed Tarot, Tarot Advice, Relationship Problems, Family Conflict, Stability, Harmony, Boundaries, Gratitude]
