Okay, so, today I wanted to dive into something a little more, shall we say, personal? It’s about the Two of Wands reversed in a love reading. Now, I’m no expert, but I’ve been messing around with Tarot cards for a while now, and this one really got me thinking recently.
Getting Started
It all started a few weeks ago. I was feeling kind of blah about my relationship. Nothing major, just this nagging feeling that things were… stuck. So, I pulled out my trusty deck and did a simple three-card spread, just to see what’s up. And guess what card showed up in the middle? Yep, the Two of Wands, but flipped upside down.
Digging Deeper
First thing I did? I grabbed my notebook where I scribble down all my card pulls and what I think they mean. For the Two of Wands reversed, I had written things like “feeling uncertain,” “lacking direction,” and “afraid to move forward.” It was like the card was holding up a mirror to my own feelings. Not exactly a fun realization, but hey, that’s what I signed up for, right?
The Process
So, I started journaling about it. Every day, I would write down any moments where I felt that uncertainty or fear of change in my relationship. Like, there was this one time my partner suggested we try a new hobby together, and my immediate reaction was to hesitate. I realized I was clinging to our routine, even though it wasn’t completely fulfilling.
Then, I started talking to my partner about it, in small doses. No big, dramatic conversations, just casually mentioning things like, “Hey, I feel like we’ve been in a bit of a rut lately, what do you think?” It was scary, but it opened up some good dialogue. Turns out, they were feeling it too, in their own way.
Making Changes
The biggest thing I did was start saying “yes” more. Not to everything, obviously, but to things that I would normally shy away from. New date night ideas? Sure. Trying that weird new restaurant? Why not. It wasn’t always comfortable, but it started to shake things up a bit.
Outcome
Honestly, things are still a work in progress. But I can say that pulling that reversed Two of Wands was a real wake-up call. It forced me to confront those feelings of stagnation and to start making small changes to address them. I can use the Tarot cards to find more information about the love between us.
Reflecting
- Facing the unknown: This whole experience has reminded me that it’s okay to feel uncertain sometimes. Relationships are complicated, and it’s natural to have doubts or fears.
- Small steps: I’ve learned that you don’t need to make huge, sweeping changes to get things moving again. Sometimes, it’s the little things that make the biggest difference.
- Communication is key: Even just acknowledging those feelings of uncertainty out loud, both to myself and my partner, made a world of difference.
So, yeah, that’s my little adventure with the Two of Wands reversed. It wasn’t always easy, but I definitely learned a lot. And hey, if you’re feeling stuck in your love life, maybe it’s worth pulling out a deck of cards and seeing what they have to say. You might be surprised at what you discover!
